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Getting Divorced… Now What? – Buy It January 15th, 2025

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“When faced with the question of whether you should stay in a marriage, difficult emotions are bound to arise…. Despite the emotions involved, a life-changing decision needs to be made when considering the financial, emotional, and legal implications specific to your situation. The first question you should ask is: ‘Should I file for divorce or repair my marriage?’.”

Thus begins Getting Divorced... Now What?, a new go-to guide on making the process of divorce less painful.

Life And Expectations Change

No one expects they will be heading for divorce when they say yes to a proposal from someone they deeply love. But life, growth, and experience inevitably change people, and if one’s spouse is unable to accept those changes, divorce also becomes inevitable. Whether the divorce is amicable or catches one party off-guard will determine how complicated and emotionally devastating this life-changing event becomes.

Getting Divorce… Now What

Written by family law and litigation attorney Rachel King, Getting Divorced... Now What? explores the many complexities of divorce. Her main goal in writing the book was to compile what she’s learned over ten years of representing and witnessing thousands of family court cases into a compassionate, relatable roadmap for those who may not be able afford an attorney. It provides the tools necessary for anyone contemplating divorce—or in the midst of one—to confidently navigate the rigors (emotional and legal) of divorce and simplify the complicated chapter of their life.

Real-Life Stories

One key element of Getting Divorced… Now What? are real-life anecdotes and stories that offer a sense of relief, letting them know that they are not going through their divorce alone.

Here’s a quick excerpt of one story (names and facts have been altered to protect the individuals involved):

“Meet Sarah and John: They live in the heart of a bustling city, amidst the chaotic rhythm of life. They married at 23 years old, right after college, deeply in love, and quickly started their family. Now, thirteen years later, life is taking its toll on their marriage…. She finds herself overwhelmed, and her marriage is feeling the brunt of it. She is torn between wanting to save the marriage, or realizing that maybe it's too late, and it’s time to move on. A lot has happened over fifteen years. She is exhausted and not sure if she is emotionally willing to invest another day in her marriage.…. Their journey began like a fairy tale, with stolen glances, and promises of forever. Yet, as time and life unfurled its complexities, cracks began to form in the once-solid foundation of their marriage. Sarah, with her heart heavy with burden, finds solace in the silent confinements of her therapist's office. Should she stay or should she go?”

You Are Not Alone

With many anecdotes, stories, and practical and authoritative information from Rachel King’s ten years of experience, by the time you’re done reading Getting Divorced… Now What?, you will no doubt believe “You are not alone, and you will survive!”

Take your first step towards healing and empowerment by checking out a  free chapter of Getting Divorced… Now What?

And look for the book when it’s released on January 15, 2025.

Get answers to all of your burning questions about Getting Divorced… Now What?


Disclaimer: Getting Divorced… Now What? is not a replacement or substitute for legal advice. You should speak with an attorney in your jurisdiction to get legal advice on your case. The book is not legal advice and is not intended to be legal advice. The book is for informational and entertainment purposes only. Buying, reading, or otherwise using this book does not establish an attorney-client relationship, nor does it constitute legal advice.

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